I am really new to this so please have some patience. I set up a database using mysql and another using netbeans. I want to know how to be able to add and delete data remotely. I read that phpmyadmin is a good tool but there is no login page or so I don't know exactly how to access this service.

Can someone give me a step by step on how to connect my netbeans server into phpmyadmin, google isn't helping much, because it assumes I know how to access it.