help in JFrame

hi all
I have Created one Frame and in which Buttons are provided which opens new Internal Frames....what i want is when i open one Internal Frame the other Internal Frame gets closed...
or

if i click one button then other button gets disabled and when i close the internal frame all disabled button gets enabled...


please help me out....
thank you...

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